True facts about Break-Ups!

Hi there everyonee, welcome back! Today I'm gonna tell you some facts about Break-Ups (either both good or bad ones) . We all know break-up sucks even for those who does the 'breaking up'. It's an event like death where no ones expects it and no one wants to get involve in it.

But nevertheless, it happens because it's reality and it's sadly one of those things where EVERYONE will have to go through at least once in their entire life.

------ > With that being said, let's get down some real facts here. I'll be saying these from a female's point of view because I am one? Duhh.  hahaha let's get down to it. : ) [Be honest, we've all been there].

• #1 ---> Before we feel start to feel the sad part of experience a break - up, the first reaction is normally 'doubt' . Because it's an unexpected event, it's hard for our minds to take it as it is just like rejection. You'll say 'nooo way this is happening now' & unfortunately it is. But for the first few days or weeks - your mind choose NOT to believe it and that's ok . --- True ?

• #2 ---> There will be days where you wish  you were back with him together especially when night falls or sometimes for some cases, the whole day simply because you've spend so much time together. We've all been there, where we are so used to having that person with us all the time that without them, we feel this 'withdrawal syndrome' when we can't even see each other anymore. 

• #3 ---> You will be / have been in this phase where 'I don't know what I should now with my life , everything is a mess and I just want to zone myself out from the world' . You've just lost someone who was once close to your heart (not LOST=LOST but lost in a way you'll never be with them ever again), so it's normal as it's part of that 'withdrawal'. 

• #4 ---> You'll feel that no matter who tells you that it's the right thing to do/ you're better off without him/ you deserve better, something inside you still have HOPE that one day, it COULD work oncemore only if we meet up one more time or talk to each other & you keep telling yourself that , sounds familiar? 

• #5 ---> With each passing day post-breakup, even weeks ahead or months ahead, everytime you see something that reminds you of him or a past memory that felt familiar once, will bring you back to that bittersweet feeling in your heart and you just wish that the other person is thinking of you too while you are doing just that and hoping your phone will beep/ring any second now.... but no, there's nothing but silence... and the cycle goes back to the start of 'feeling sad/missing him' once again. 

Unfortunately, everyone hate break-ups. We've all been there and everyone always says this:

'Only Time Can Heal A Broken Heart.'

You tell me in the comments below whether that statement above is true or false? 
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This is what I believe that could help get over your break-up a little less painful and quicker...

1. Accept it - Easier said than done (I know that for a fact) . BUT, if you don't accept the fact that it's over, you're never gonna get out of that 'depressive cycle' and it's gonna eat you up inside-out.  *' I understand when it's still fresh, it's a lot harder to accept it, but take your time.. there's no rush, there is still 24 hours in a day, everything is still the same, so embrace and take some time off for yourself to encourage and nourish YOU then only will you be able to start 'accepting it'.
2. Encourage YOU - I know you're probably feeling super low about yourself right now. * 'Trust me, this is the only time where you have an excuse to shut out everything else but the things that matters to you most and do what you want to do. Friends will understand, Parents will understand, just do what you think you have to do to get back on your feet. '
3. Be at Peace with yourself - It's difficult when you blame yourself for the break-up or you wonder why did he even broke up with you or even think twice to question, why did you even break up in the first place -- I shouldn't have done this and etc... STOP all that thoughts. * It's either you've made the decision/ fate has made the decision that you two just aren't meant to be together and there's nothing you can do to be how it was. So stop wishing it was then now, and stop blaming yourself. BREATHE! It ended for a reason (you may know it, you may not) and it's okay. Just believe that everything happens for a reason - for all you know, you 'one true love' could just be that friend who has been there for you all along while you were out searching' . 

Basically, you will realize these few things during your break up that will make you feel stronger.

 [ Here are some quotes I found online for you - so sit back, relax and hope these help! It's almost the end of the post, don't worry :P ]

 

So I hoped these quotes & words have helped you. Sorry for the LONG post, really just wanted to include everything in. 

Just take some time out if it's affecting you real bad, and don't be afraid to let go of the past.

Just a few example of quotes I'd thought would help to relate what I'm trying to come across :) 

Anyways, if you have any tips/advice/tricks of getting over a break-up, share in the comments down below. Will be looking out for it.

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