How to know if he likes you?
As the title say, it's what always wonder about when we find someone interesting, someone who passes through 'stage 1' of your books, someone who could seem like a potential partner to you in your life.
Depending on the ways you both correspond, here's how to know if he likes you?
- If you two see each other physically a lot :
a) Body Language : Does he mimic your actions, does he look into your eyes, does he open the door for you, does he watch his manners around you, does he constantly want to make you laugh and enjoy the date with him , does he give you attention like you're the star of the night, is his body language pointing towards you and being open about it, is he happy to be sharing things in his day to you, is he smiling more than he's frowning or complaining, is he flirting with you. [ Those are some of the examples to look out for! ;) ]
b) His gesture / actions : Does he care about you and your day? Does he ask because he wants too and not because he has to? Are his intentions pure? Does he treat you appropriately? Does he treats you differently from his friends? Does he appreciate your efforts? Does he let you know that too Does he plans for your dates ? Does he ever talk about doing things together with you? Does his words meets his actions?
- If you two see or communicate : Online
b) Take your time : Because words are your main communication, it takes time to build the level of trust before you consider being in a relationship, also.. don't trust words as fast as you trust seeing someone physically. Enjoy the process in the mean time, but don't rush. :)
- If you both communication a lot through : Text ,
a) Emoticons : A lil goes a long way, it shows how flirty you can be, it gives you a picture of how your emotional expression is and I think , it makes it more real. So if he uses it a lot, it's a good sign.
b) Express loyalty and support through text is vital! If the relationship survives mainly through text, you've got to look out for loyalty which is determined by how fast he responds to you or whether he actually does [if he makes you a priority in his life, he will get back to you] and as for support, iuf he's always there for you and telling you how he's always there for you, you cant be more clear than that! =)
- If you lost contact and just re-connected through facebook or mutual friends / long distance
a) Forget the past, and move on from there : what was isn't what is. So find the balance to move forward. There will be some sort of sacrificing if he starts putting efforts into checking up on you, it's a good sign.
b) Knowing that he's there is always a good sign, so loyalty & trust is important. If you can both achieve that, both of you can be happy. :)
- If you both communicate mostly with : phone calls
a) Besides the actual conversation : How often does he call you? Do you normally talk on just main points or he doesn't mind long talks when its with you? Does he call you just to hear your voice? Does he only call you at night or at no specific time? Does he call you enough but not to the point where he constantly checks up on you all the time.
b) In the phone call conversations : How does his voice sounds? What do you guys talk about? Does he tells you he misses you? And etc.
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Basically in all situations, the most important thing is : Is he putting more effort than how a 'friend' should normally treat you & secondly , are his actions better than what he says because you don't want someone who speaks tons but do nothin . =)
Also, you'll know, before reading this .. you've got a rough answer of it in your head already, if that's the case. I'd say listen to your gut & go with that feeling.
Hope this helps,
See you soon,
G.
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