Self Help : You against the world

Heyyy everyone, sorry for the late post. Have been busy for the past few days. 

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Anyways, I've got this one written down since a few weeks ago and it's about pushing yourself to be a better version of yourself rather than following where or what the world wants you to do because no one knows yourself better than you.

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I know for a fact like me, I get distracted really easily, I get pressured & I get influenced into what people do and say and that's normal but I noticed , it kept happening.. again and again to the point , I started to lose what's important to me ... 

that's when I realized, I needed to change the way I think.

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That's when I learnt that. 

That's when a shift occured in my life, where I started to be okay with leaving people out who don't bring any positive influence into my life , I started listening to myself, and I started to do things I personally wanted to do instead of doing it just because someone asked me to or 'I have to do because it looks good' .

I started to value my opinions,ideas and thoughts as much as I did for what others had to say. 

1) I started to count myself in. 

From that moment, I did that ... I started to feel important. I started to be more focused on my goals, I started to motivate myself and believe in myself . Slowly bit by bit, life was starting to go my way ... and that's where I started to feel happy. 

Before this , I was constantly lost between doing what others want out of me and what I want out of myself - not knowing which one to choose was the WORST. But to be real honest, no matter how far you go in the wrong direction, something will always pull you back to where you belong no matter how much you FORCE yourself NOT to. Because if it's something you're passionate about, it's only natural your body guides you to it . 

So yes, for me ... it was blogging. I've always like blogging, computers, and just being able to express & share my thoughts but I never had any guts to do something like this ... until one day, I decided to take that step and here I am now... working 2 jobs at once & I'm not complaining because I enjoy it. 

It's my way of de-stressing too so it's a complementary relationship going on. = )

It's never too late to do something you've always wanted to do. 

Just listen to your gut. It will guide you to what's right and don't be afraid to lose things along the way, because when you do so, life will automatically fit the right people back into your life & this time, you get to be your true self. 

The moral of the story: As important everyone's else opinion is to you, you deserve a chance to be you too. You've got one life, don't miss out on being you. 

Hope this article helps,

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Have a great day.