Relationship : 5 ways to attract the kind of relationship you want

 Hey everyone,
Welcome back to Gennaxnyou!

We've got a brand new post today and it's all about relationships & how to attract the right one!

In a relationship nowadays , it's quite common to see one person's personality mold into the other person's wanted personality & over time, that can really take a toll on that person and cause friction within the relationship which is why , you have relationships that 'die out' or 'burn out' after a couple of years together. 

The things is, communication is SO important because without it, you'll hold in every problem or issue you have till one day you'll explode & it all comes running out causing a loss in that relationship when it could have been fixed through proper understanding & sharing. But anyways, we're here to talk about:

HOW TO ATTRACT the right relationship for yourself.

x Create a personality of your own [influenced by your values,beliefs & who you are]

You've got to believe in yourself, in order for people to believe in you too. So create you own personality, be who you are & stand for what you believe in so the right people can find you.That way, you'll know if they really LIKE you for who you are or for who you have to be.

x Be confident & love yourself enough to raise your self esteem

The best place to start with this, is to face your insecurities. Find out what you don't like about yourself & make that your statement. It's those things that will make you unique from everyone else. Who knows ? The thing you dislike about yourself may the best thing that others love you for.

x Fight for your own dream/goals [ have aspirations ]

There's nothing more attractive of a person that them having aspirations & goals in life besides being confident, so being driven by a goal is definitely one to focus on. Yeah, it may take a while to find someone who has similar interest as you but don't give up because when you do find them, they'll make your life feel complete & they'll make you feel even better about yourself. Imagine having a group of friends who you can open up to , who respects you & you're able to trust? It takes time but just keep doing what you love.

x Be brave to face your struggles 
Being independent means knowing how to take care of yourself and not expecting someone else to help you do everything. Not only is that kind of trait attractive, it leads people to know that you know what's going on & you'll less likely meet people who would take advantage of you.


x Learn to practice REPRESENTING you as your own brand to the world

Last but not least, once you got all those sorted out about who you are & what you're about to portray yourself as, make sure they're truthfully who you are & not acting as someone else you want to be because, it shows if you're being fake. So it's all about being who you really are & having the confidence to go out there despite the judgement, insecurities & your past experiences and etc. If you can represent as yourself as your own brand , you'll eventually influence others to do so too and live a happy life together.

So those are my ways on how you can help yourself to attract a better more suitable relationship into your life . It takes time and practice but eventually, someone who's suitable for you will unexpectedly come into your life,

and the rest will be history. 

Good luck & have fun,

G.